Client Success: Nick & Kelly Denman
Learn how Nick won Kelly's heart and head back to the marriage, even after YEARS of Kelly's unhappiness and demands for a divorce -- and see how in eight short weeks how he was able to win her back and become the couple who fell in love 28 years ago all over again.
Watch the same training Nick watched to get started!Client Success: Dave & Tracy Fary
Learn how Dave won Tracy's heart and head back to the marriage, even after she had already moved out -- and see how that changed his life, her life, and the life of his children forever!
Watch the same training Dave watched to get started!Client Success:
John & Janie Dickinson - He Heard Her Heart & That Melted Hers
Learn how Janie went from not feeling safe unless John was 1,000 miles away to happier than she's ever been!
Watch the same training John watched to get started!The First Step is to...
take EXTREME OWNERSHIP and RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY for YOUR OWN HAPPINESS -- and then invite her into that space.
It's time to get REAL about declaring and then creating the life you, your wife, and your kids were meant to live.
My brother, life is too short to be lived with so little happiness: your happiness; her happiness; your children's happiness; marital and family happiness ARE YOUR BIRTH RIGHTS.
AND THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IN THE MEN WHO CREATE THIS HAPPY LIFE FOR THEMSELVES AND THEIR FAMILY -- AND THOSE WHO DON'T -- IS THOSE WHO DO CHOOSE TO GET REAL.
THESE MEN DARE TO IMAGINE THE LIFE THEY WANT, AND THEN TRANSFORM THEMSELVES INTO THE MAN WHO CAN GET THAT LIFE, AND KEEP THAT LIFE.
My promise to you is that it's POSSIBLE FOR YOU TOO -- IF YOU'RE WILLING TO GET REAL. That's not theory, it's proven fact because not only have I done it,.. I'VE ALSO coached THOUSANDS of men who have done it too.
If you need EMERGENCY DIVORCE PREVENTION help right away -- Start by clicking on any link that leads to my free training (like the blue button below).
However, before you do, I invite you to scroll down and read about what we believe, what we stand for, and who we are.
Avoid Divorce, and Lovingly Transform Your Wife from an Adversary to an Advocate
If you believe your wife is 'done' and walking away, or about to be, or just unhappy enough for you to be miserable -- and you know that short of some transformational change -- you're going to end up being divorced, I help you Win Her Back to the Table, the Conversation, The Marriage, and the Bedroom -- which puts you on a firm foundation to build and maintain the 'Have it All' Lifestyle.)
Start by watching my Free Masterclass by clicking the button below.
The Real Man Revolution is a BROTHERHOOD for Professional Men WHO REFUSE TO SETTLE
"Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another" - Proverbs 27:17
My Brother.
Very few men were ever trained in the ART and SCIENCE of being a REAL Man -- and that's a TRAGEDY.
Because RESULTS MATTER.
As MEN, we're expected to CREATE and DELIVER RESULTS for God, our Wife, our Children, and ourself.
YET MOST MEN FAIL to get the RESULTS they want, and therefore DELIVER a DISAPPOINTING Life to THEMSELVES and their FAMILY.
The Real Man Revolution ETHOS
Ethos refers to the morals, values and beliefs of our culture. Adherence to our culture determines our level of integrity as a man.
This is a time of crisis. Society has pushed an agenda for the emasculation of men, and many women (who agree that undisciplined male rage is a problem -- which it is) have jumped on the emasculation solution as the answer. The result? Men are abdicating their duty, responsibility, and solemn obligation to LEAD in their homes. In this leadership vacuum, women have filled the THE LEADERSHIP VACUUM and taken the leadership role in their families.
And most men would rather take a punch in the face by another man, than admit that their wife is leading. Yet, sadly, too many men have also bought into the agenda under the wrong-thinking 'happy life, happy wife', and the counter-productive result is MORE male rage.
And TRAGICALLY, women are LEAVING men 2:1 because despite buying into the emasculation solution in general, they find they would rather raise their children on their own, than stay married to an emasculated man.
However, also in this time of crisis there is a special breed of MAN. A man who TAKES EXTREME OWNERSHIP, AND RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR HIS RESULTS IN LIFE, and therefore makes it duty, responsibility, and solemn obligation to LEAD, and LEADS.
THIS MAN is willing to do the HARD WORK on himself to forge a constant state, a firmly rooted identity of a man who's aggression is under tight control and used only in a productive manner -- and who's rage is gone. This man takes a stand for CERTAINTY, SAFETY, SECURITY, PROTECTION, PEACE and LOVE and successfully delivers THOSE RESULTS to his wife and children. This is a REAL man.
I AM THAT MAN.
Real Manhood is achieved through belief. Therefore:
I believe that real life can only be found in Jesus Christ.
John 3:16 says:
“For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life.”
I believe the beginning and end of all healthy relationships is being real with God, myself and others.
Ephesians 4:25-26 says:
“So stop telling lies. Let us tell our neighbors the truth, for we are all parts of the same body. And “don’t sin by letting anger control you.”
I believe being a LEADER means serving my wife, my children, and my employees, by intentionally praying for, equipping, and encouraging them on a regular basis.
Mark 10:43 says:
“But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant,…"
I believe LEADING AND SERVING my WIFE AND CHILDREN REQUIRES HOLDING MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE (AND ALLOWING OTHER LIKE-MINDED MEN TO HOLD ME ACCOUNTABLE) to my duties, my responsibilities, and my solemn obligations to my wife and children. Every day for the rest of our lives I will...
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LEAD by example in all situations.
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be PRESENT with you.
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protect you; and for this reason I will not deny aggression, but instead protect you from it at all times.
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be your strength.
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answer you.
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provide for you.
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give you peace.
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dedicate myself to learning how to love you in the unique and special way you want and need to be loved; and loving more you that way every day.
I believe in holding myself accountable to the FACTS that I will use as EVIDENCE of my RESULTS on above, and will TAKE EXTREME OWNERSHIP and RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY for improving them every day.
I believe that IRON SHARPENS IRON, and therefore I will join in fellowship with OTHER MEN who are on this journey, and submit to MALE LEADERSHIP from MEN who are further down this path.
I believe that to TRAIN is to both LEARN and PRACTICE by PUSHING MYSELF to BELIEVE I CAN BE JUST A LITTLE BETTER EVERY DAY, AND THEN PUSHING INTO THAT BELIEF, DESPITE THE MINOR PAIN OF DISCIPLINING MYSELF TO GROW -- IN EXACTLY THE SAME WAY THAT PHYSICAL STRENGTH AND MUSCLE IS BUILT. I DISCIPLINE MYSELF BECAUSE I BELIEVE THAT IF I DO NOT, OTHERS AND LIFE ITSELF WILL DISCIPLINE ME.
I WILL NOT FAIL.
Our Mission:
To Reverse the Tragedy of Emasculation
The answer to today’s marital problems is NOT to turn men into women in an attempt to eradicate “toxic masculinity.” Rather, men must own their HEALTHY masculinity to experience deep love and affection, both socially and romantically — without fear of shame or looking weak.
And MOST importantly to treat women and girls with the same level of kindness and respect — absent rage and hurtful aggression — that all men crave themselves.
Mission success demands men who are willing to be REAL. We seek only those men who are decisive, and willing to take responsibility for their own behavior — and for every result in their life. In all things we are closers: we only deal in YES or NO, there is no room for MAYBE committing ourselves to this mission.
• Once decided, we are forged by the desire to live the fullest lives possible, therefore our mission requires self-mastery excellence. We employ the premier tools of self-awareness and self-mastery to become ELITE husbands and fathers. We leverage our God Given Male Aggression and HARNESS it and DIRECT it in only healthy directions it to PROTECT and EXPAND our God Given Kingdom's every day in furtherance of our beliefs.
• Leadership is the foundation of all we do. We seek leadership from men who demand excellence from themselves, so we can learn by example how to lead our wife and children by example.
• We invest deeply in all aspects of male development: physical, emotional, spiritual, and financial -- as well as our continued personal development. We build strong and resilient marriages and families as the foundation of the 'have it all' lifestyle.
Our Vision:
A World Where the Natural Order of Male and Female Roles are in Perfect Balance, Causing the Divorce Rate to Plummet.
Vision success demands we live by our beliefs to earn the trust of our wife. IF A WIFE DOES NOT FEEL SAFE TO BE LED BY HER HUSBAND, HER HUSBAND HAS FAILED.
• In this vision there is is no room for broken promises.
• In this vision there is no room for broken trust.
• In this vision there is no room for male rage directed inside of a marriage, and little to no reason for it to be directed out..
- THIS VISION IS IMPOSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE UNLESS EACH WIFE FEELS COMPLETELY SAFE, SECURE, LOVED, AND LED TO HER IDEA OF THE BEST VERSION OF HERSELF AND HER LIFE BY HER HUSBAND AT ALL TIMES.
OUR VALUES:
Being REAL by . . .
• Taking EXTREME OWNERSHIP and RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY for the RESULTS in our life.
• ACTING on the FACTS above to ONLY look INWARD and improve OURSELF as the answer to anything that detracts from achieving our MISSION and VISION.
• Resolving conflict in a Biblical manner.
Honoring God by…
• Understanding that Christ's relationship to us is the model we are to follow to create our relationship with our wife.
• Pursuing and living by His truth as found in the Bible.
• Communicating with Him regularly through prayer.
• Living life as an ELITE leader in our homes, by rigorous expressing of our faith in obedience to His leadership (even when it doesn’t make sense).
Valuing People by…
• Serving those we are directly responsible for -- prioritizing our wife and children.
• Leading people to God's love as the ultimate answer to their peace, freedom, and happiness.
• Intentionally treating people as loved by God.
• Acknowledging and celebrating God’s involvement in and through each other.
Serving God and Others by…
• Discovering, TRAINING, DEVELOPING, and USING the gifts & talents God gave us in furtherance of our MISSION and VISION.
• Giving God our best efforts, abilities & resources.
• Practicing true leadership and ministry.
• Modeling a Christ-like state and attitude.
BROTHER: Does this sound like you?
If so, WELCOME. We Invite you to Join the BROTHERHOOD.
Ready to get started?
It all starts with creating the 'Have it All Marriage' as the Foundation for the 'Have it All Life.'